lack of steadiness

A: _______ just texted me that 'all is well'
A: she was suppssoed to be having her talk with her boyfriend tonight
A: how can all be well if your boyfriend solicits sex when you're away on business??
B: is there a way he didn't actually cheat on her?
A: i'm not sure
B: i mean there's no way there's like a misunderstanding happening there is there?
B: that's the only way for it to be all good
A: right, it can be 'okay'
A: but not 'good'
B: right, like he can apologize, say he didn't actually fuck anyone but the fact that he was looking is bad....etc....that's sorta better
B: but not at all 'all good'
B: crazy relationships
A: totally
B: why do people do this to themselves?
B: everyone i know has some kind of romance related drama
A: not me, not me!
B: hehe, not u....kinda
A: well, i mean the fact that it is missing from my life might be dramatic
B: u do have the _____ situation, and the need to find a boy, and get some drama
B: lol
B: exactly
B: it's always an issue one way or another
A: haha, it is
A: damn my drama.
B: haha
B: i should have stuck with my 15yr old theory, "relationships=bad and stupid, and i don't need one"
B: ah what happened to that young idealistic girl of long ago....
B: i miss her
A: aww
B: ha, i like how what some would call cynical, i call idealistic
A: lol


recently there has been a lack of steadiness in a lot of peoples romantic lives, nice to know i'm not alone, even though it sucks and i wish everyone around me (and me) could find and enjoy whatever it is they are looking for.

why this lack of steadiness? well, i think it just comes with life....but this article offers a little more illumination that could also explain it in part at least:

ah the early-mid 20's...what fun...